Why do emotionally and physically abused people stay in an abusive relationship? How do relationships in a community or organization compare to familial abuse? Ari @her.truth.be.told shares her story of growing up in a family of 10 children. Ari discusses her gradual realization of gaslighting, being discarded and blocked from her family. Her parents followed the rules and demanded obedience to their role as parents. She tells her story with dignity and determination. She didn’t stay.